Saturday, November 12, 2011

Most Confusing Story please i need advice here!!!?

This girl and I have been seeing each other for about a month now and we told each other that we were going to take it slow. She had bad relationship where her boyfriend cheated on her and she felt miserable and I was out of a relationship where it was constant bickering. The both of us were at a place were we were hurt and we were going to take things slow emotionally. Obviously we didn’t want to rush into things. So we kept doing what we were doing andi started having feelings as if she wanted to get more out of me. She told me that her parents knew about me and she kept talking about how she doesn’t do relationships and that the thought of commitment scares her and that she is at a place where she doesn’t ever want to do it again. Part of me wants to believe her and just do what we are doing with no title but I keep thinking its more. Part of me wants it to be but I didn’t want to ume and put myself out there. Her friends every time they see me start to laugh and she gets happy when I come to her events and its almost as if we are like some miniature couple. I asked her one day cause I was feeling like maybe im getting a little to attached like where do you see this going and what do want from me. She said that its something that she wanted to be easy and fun. I can do that but theirs going to be a point in time where I feel like someone, most likely me is going to get hurt. She is always saying things that make me want to end it like “ I get bored after a certain period” or “ I’m leaving soon” and I’m like well than to hell with this. I am not sticking around for an inevitable good bye? The sad thing is that I know she likes me but I don’t know if she is going to let me. Like I really don’t know, she always says that she’s not getting married and than she tells me that she had a dream of having my baby? Why tell me that in the first place, maybe im really attached and in love and I am overyzing but can somebody please tell me what am I supposed to do?

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